Thankyou for your lovely messages

We have made it to 11 weeks no more bleeding over the past week, emotionally found it difficult this weekend being surrounded by family whom we haven't yet told, hopefully in another couple of weeks things will be looking more safe before we let them know.

Last night was a bad night, DH and I fought over something trivial that was out of my control and I ended up crying my eyes out in the car while everyone went in for dinner, DH stayed and we got through it, both acknowledging how hard it is for the both of us. I recovered and went in and try to calm down my red and puffy eyes, but we got there in the end.

So we are holding it all together most of the time, but having little crashes every now and then, but we are continuing to talk it all through which helps emensely.

Hopefull my next update will be all positive news from the NT scan and praying for a lengthened cervix and it will provide enough security that we can leave this thread and have a smooth second and third trimesters xxoo