Thanks for the update :grouphug: I have been thinking of you so much today xx
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Thanks for the update :grouphug: I have been thinking of you so much today xx
Beema - hugs for you honey!
What a mix - it sounds like flicker is hanging in there and growing strong. So that's great news.
Hopefully your body will do all the right things for you and do them soon, so that you're on the way to a smoother ride.
:hug: Beema. You can continue to lean on BB's virtual shoulders for as long as you like. I'm glad there was some good news for you in amongst the not so good. Keep fighting Flicker!!!
have been thinking of you today and am glad that the scan is over and there are positives to help you through the coming days. and as your ticker says: flicker is a fighter!
I am sorry things aren't easier for you hun, but like you said there are some positives there. And who knows maybe this was a late ovulation? Here for you and will be waiting to hear the all clear in the near future :hug:
Rach xx
Hun, you and Flicker are going to be in my prayers :hug::pray:
beema :hug: glad that flicker has a nice strong HB - and nothing wrong with little arms and legs (i have little legs and DH has little arms!) im hoping there is no more bleeds between now and tuesday for you :hug: you're doing a good job of getting though this - you're story im sure will help alot of other women who are going though this too :hug:
:hug: Thinking of you hun, glad there was some good news to be had.
:hug: Vic, I wish it was all good news, but try to stay focused on the positives... I know you will.
Here for you every day, every hour if you need us... and you can call me if you want to chat. Always here :hug:
Thanks Beema for the update, I was thinking of you today. Definately a mixed bag of news, but any good news is good news. How wonderful to see your baby with little arms and legs - very disappointing to KNOW that there is still alot of bleeding to go though. I bled until 16 weeks and some of that was very heavy and clot like and here I am to tell the story. I think sometimes these are the processes that we need to get through to get our reward at the end and think how strong your little Flicker is in there kicking away despite the bleeding. Hugs for you.
Hugs V. A bit up and down still hey but some definate positives. You seem to have a great ob that must be a small comfort.
Oh Beamer one step at a time.. :hug:
and you need support there is nothing wrong with that!! We are all here for eachother!!! Remember that song.. Lean on me....
Hiya hun
:hug: :hug:
You're doing really well, staying really strong and calm through what is such a hugely challenging process. Flicker is hanging in there, one day at time, one day closer each day that passes.
I'm not on BB much at the moment, but I've been thinking of you heaps. Lots of hugs and support - we're all here to give you that, even when there are those moments when you're not feeling quite so strong or calm.
Hang in there, Flicker, you're doing so well! :pray:
Oh I have only just found this thread. What a time you are having!
Sending massive :hug: :hug: :hug: and loads of virtual support. You are a strong mummy and Flicker is a strong little bubba. He or she has chosen you for a reason darl. I'm sorry it looks like you've got a fair bit more bleeding to go though. I hope it is painless and over quickly.
Look after yourself. xx
Thinking of you Vic :hug: :hug:
Don't be silly. We are not sick and tired of you.
I'm glad that there are some more good news.
I'm thinking of you, just as the others are too.
:hug:
Holding on to the positives good heartbeat, waving arms and legs
Just keep on taking it one day, one step, one scan at a time. You did it for Nikita so you can do it for this little one too. Your kids are so precious to you, you can handle anything they throw at you.
Hugs hugs hugs.
Hun we are all here. We all want to support you through this.
Glad everything about baby seems healthy. Thats a huge start :)
:hug: Take it easy hun xx
Thankyou all for your wonderful words of support, and for coming back in and posting time and time again :redface:, I really didn't think I would still be posting in this thread weeks later....
Dansta ~ if my journey can help just one other mother going through the same experience by giving her hope, then documenting what has happened will be worth it. I took a lot of hope out of MeridithD's journey, it is where I have been generating some of my strength from.
starangelk ~ thankyou for sharing your experience with bleeding, it really helps to have support for mothers who have been through similar, and who udnerstand hard hard it can be.
The day after a scan is always that bit easier, the emotions aren't as raw, they are still there but at least I feel that I am not going to break down in tears at the drop of a hat :redface:
I am in two minds about the bleeding, I want it over with so if the stich it necessary we don't have any barriers preventing it from being put in earlier rather than later, but each time the bleeds just hit me emotionally and are so draining. So the breaks inbetween give me a chance to refocus... and rebuild.
Thankyou again, hopefully the weekend is bleed free and I can have a break from Tuesdays scan.
xxoo :grouphug:
:hug: :pray: your weekend is bleed free also
Huge :hug: :hug: Beema. I really hope you get a break from the bleeding this weekend. Must be so hard knowing that it's there and it has to come out, when it's the last thing in the world you want to have to see.
Thinking of you and Flicker.
xxxx
Praying your weekend is bleed free :hug::hug:
Massive :hug: Beema !
You are so brave and strong (even if you dont feel that you are)
We are all here for you - keep talking.
So glad you got some positive news.
:hug:
xoxo
Thankyou lovely ladies :grouphug:
:leap: We got through the weekend without a bleed, was lovely and I actually am feeling quite good, so I may be able to cancel tomorrows scan and give myself a break for a bit longer from the emotions that come with having a scan :crossfingers:
It is fabulous to be able to share news of a positive weekend, even it it means prolonging the bleeding process I needed the break IYKWIM :hug:
xxoo
yay! xox
Aww :hug: hun your doing a fantastic job.. keep that positive spirit and know we are always here for you.
Good news on the no-bleeding weekend, hun. :pray: that it continues.
Fabulous news!! Fingers crossed for a week of no bleeds now.
Am thinking of you often. wonderful to hear it was a positive weekend xxxx
I'm glad you had a good weekend. I hope this pregnancy continues to bring better news every scan/appt and that your full term bubba will greet you at the end. :hug:
Great news Vic!
:leap:
Glad to hear it gave you a break, but I hope the non-bleeding doesn't prolong whatever you need to do to ensure your FT Take home bubba!
Still always thinking of you.... I've even looked at flights just to come over and give you a hug.... unfortunately it just isn't that practical atm :(
:hug:
hugs to you! glad you have a positive weekend!! still thinking of you. :hugs:
Sending you :hug: here too. Glad your weekend was good though :) Rach xx
Also glad to hear you had a good weekend :hug:
Great! :crossfingers: that there's no more :)
So glad to hear your weekend was good & you are feeling better :hug:
Thankyou :grouphug: for continuing to think about us.
Yesterday the perfect name for flickers twin came to me... bringing light and flight
Firefly, fly free my sweet angel :angel: I feel that this is the next step for us, in trying to comprehend our loss. But I feel that I won't be able to really greive until I am holding Flicker in my arms knowing that he/she is safe...
You are so sweet hun :hug:, you have so much to think about and a sweet bubba to grow big and strong, such a lovely thought, we will catch up again soon...:
I haven't cancelled my appointment today yet, I am thinking that maybe I do go and get a growth scan done to see that Flicker is still growing as with the long weekend ahead it would give me some comfort to know that the growth is still happening....
I will see how I feel about it in an hour or two...
Thankyou for being there, I really don't know how I would be dealing with this if I didn't have BB to lean on :grouphug:
Best of luck with your scan today. Praying that Flickers is growing beautifully and you see and hear that gorgeous heart beat. Will be thinking of you!!!
Wishing you the best of luck for your scan today :hug: