well this time I want to find out as DH wouldn't let me first time around. I want to be organised & living remote I can only shop every now & then & I don't want to have to wait. So I would be very peeved if they couldn't tell me at the 20wk scan & TBH I'm paying $190 for it!!!!! I WANT TO KNOW...LOL!!!

Sorry they couldn't tell you, I wouldn't be happy. TBH until I read this I had never thought you wouldn't be able to find out........silly me.