Direct is good - but yes, sometimes we just need the comfort of someone who understands how we are really feeling.

Honestly though - you have taken a great first step by getting out to get the info. I know so much now I wish I knew 5 pregnancies ago. I am for once actually more content about going into labour knowing I have far more control than anyone let me believe I had before.

For now, I just recommend connecting with yourself and just being happy with being pregnant. I tend to avoid all doctors for a while because they can't do anything right now really.

Just a quiet personal happiness in your pregnant body and the little life it is helping grow is all you really need right now.