Yes Kaytee i don't live 6000kms away from him for no reason at all.

He only met DS2 for the first time in February this year he was already two and i can tell you he has no money issues he flys here there and everywhere several times a year. He met us at the airport in Perth (he was there on a change over flight from work and we were on holidays) and he was more interested in his mates than the grandkids he hadn't seen in three years... sometimes i just don't get my family. He wonders why the boys are so standoffish towards him and treat him like a stanger, you can't expect anything less they got no idea all he does is throw money there way at xmas and birthdays. Kids don't remember money they remember spending quality time with family that love them and spend time with them, we are lucky DH's family are great.