I had school holidays for 6 weeks when I reached 31 weeks and then I went back to work for 3 days at 37weeks and it was too hot so I took sick leave for 1 week and then maternity leave at 38weeks. Then DD was born at 42weeks so I already had used up 4 weeks mat leave before she was born
I am starting my leave in a couple of weeks when I'll be 30 weeks. People told me that this was too early, they managed to work longer etc, but it's a personal choice.
I actually wish I'd started leave earlier than 30 weeks as my job is very physical & I underestimated how tired & uncomfortable I would be at this stage. But I only have 7 more shifts so there is light at the end of the tunnel!!
Do what you are comfortable with. If you're not willing to drive 2 hours from your hospital then don't - yours & bub's health is more important.
If you can leave at 30 weeks, then go for it! It is absolutely a personal choice.
DH is happy for me to go at 28 weeks, which we discussed before TTC, but now that I'm at a desk job I could probably stretch it out. I'll be 36 weeks at the start of our Christmas break, so that's when work will want me to go. I get the feeling I'll want to go a bit earlier, but we'll just see what happens.
My predecessor worked up til 37 weeks, and did a really bad job of the last 4 or so, and was stressed out of her pants. I don't want that to be me.
With Daniel I left at 28 weeks. I wish I hadn't. It was too early and I spent two months just eating and generally missing out on the social aspect of work.
This time I have three weeks of leave - then I take my mat leave at half pay. This will get me to Feb' paid. Then I can apply for any leave I've accumulated during that mat leave (you still accumulate leave). Then I plan on taking my pro rata at half pay. That will get me to June with money.
I am leaving this Friday, at 38 weeks. I wish I could have afforded to leave 4 weeks ago as I have slowly and steadily become more and more uncomfortable. My work doesnt have any paid maternity so it was mainly a financial decision, although I did also think that I would be bored leaving any earlier. Little did I know that by now all I'd want to do is lie on the couch and watch Scrubs re-runs
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