Same as JM. I'm a massive shower and get big quick. I'm jealous of all those teeny bellies! I'd take that any day over the way my muscles tore apart. I say it as a complement, same as people saying 'wow you're huge' is a complement. I've actually never minded people saying I'm big. I'm also short so baby has no place to go but out. Pre DD I had a pretty much flat stomach, and this time it was kinda close But now I'm looking like 15 weeks with DD. everyone carries differently, I'm sure it's just as uncomfy either way