This was the precise reason we went for an amnio - to know exactly what was going on with our baby and to be as prepared as possible for whatever medical needs she might have - particularly if she needed urgent medical care immediately after she was born.
I have found it hard to explain this to some people who have thought that because we were going for the test it would automatically mean we would terminate.
I've had people say proudly "I didn't get the 12 week test done, I don't believe in it" in a very holier-than-thou manner. I have never had the words to defend my choice in a way that they would understand. Now I do.
Thankyou so muc for your story. My baby girl had a high nuchal reading which we could see very clearly at 9 weeks. We were advised to terminate, but didn't which I am forever thankful for. Her CVS results came back fine, though were still told chance of a heart defect or something else they may find when born. However she was born healthy and perfect - Just like your 2 girls are in their mums eyes! You are a wonderful, positive mummy!
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