Ok, here is my dilemma at the moment and please feel free to tell me if im being silly here,

When i was about 12 weeks pregnant DF and i found out that friends of ours (not close friends but they do live near us in a small town) were pregnant too, and due the day after me. they came over a couple of weeks later and we were talking about baby names etc as you do. i told her that i had my girls name sorted and told her what it was and she told me some names that she had thought of too. DF wasnt too keen on my girls name to start off with but has come around now (didnt have much choice ha ha)

Last night she called DF to see if he had agreed on the girls name that i had chosen and its really stressing me out because i think that she wants to use it. I am sooooo worried that im now going to have a boy and she will have a girl and use my name, that way i wont be able to use it if i ever do have a girl.

I know i probably sound really petty and there are more important things to worry about and its only a name but we do live in a pretty small town and the name really isnt a common one so it will look silly if we both have daughters called that.

Has anyone else ever had this happen? im so stressed about it and i dont know if im just being silly!