So DF and i are both h or ny as hell and are really missing the intimacy but its just not... well, comfortable...... for either of us....
Have any of you managed to come up with anything that worked other than
Woman on top
Spooning (Man behind woman, rear entry)
Hands and Knees
Side lying, knee pulled up
??
- I'm not a big fan of being on top for the entire time..... i dont orgasm this way
- Spooning.... between my big butt and DF's "averaged" sized fella doesnt really work
- rear entry .... usually very enjoyable but my tummy muscles just dont like it ATM.... had to stop last time, just felt wrong
- side lying..... kinda same as spooning.
Plus the spooning and side lying and really working as DF isnt getting as hard as he usually would as he has a fear of hurting the baby.
Any ideas? When i was pregnant with DD (8 years ago!!) i was more than happy to satisfy myself as i didnt want to be doing anything with the X, but i love this man and miss our intimacy sooooo much!!!
When I was HUGE with Izzy I would pile up about a billion pillows and kind of half sit and half lie back (but still upright IYKWIM) and that worked as there was space between our bellies.
That's all I can think of for now!
Sitting on the lounge or side of the bed, on the edge, while DH kneels in front of you, and you can lean back a bit works well. Or he can stand and you can lie on your back, right on the edge too. All depend on height!!
I find leaning over the bench or back of the lounge good too.
I'll be back when I think of more, cant remember them all now!!
you lay on your back and he lies on his side - but your butt is against his... doodle.. and your legs are over his back and upper thighs.. does that make sense? So if anyone walked in the room, they would see you guys trying to make the shape of a mm..well I guess its sorta like two bookends pushed together??? takes up a lot of room on the bed so I hope you have at least a queen size bed!!! lol
Works well though - more penetration than missionary (if you can angle it the right way) but not as much as doggy..
your partner sits on a sturdy chair or on the side of the bed and you sit astride him, either facing him or facing the other way. You have control of the depth of penetration, while his arms are free to caress you. I found the side of the bed worked well for us...
my fave is you lay on your side, legs make a L shape (so the top leg goes up in the air) he is on his knees right up so his thighs are on either sides of your bottom leg. He can hold that leg youve got up in the air for balance or for your comfort. bellies or big bottoms dont get in the way at all, works for all sizes.
hands and knees, rear entry... i cuddle a ton of pillows(helps the belly) and DH on his knees holding my hips.(and not leaning on me at all)
never have enough energy to do the chair one during preggy, more exercise than pleasure.. but that could just be me..
Most of our pregnancy positions have been mentioned. Another one is to throw a beanbag on the bed and to "hollow out" a space for your belly, and you can lie face-down in that while he penetrates you from behind.
Sex is not exciting during most of my pregnancy. Both of us, more me, is normally asking for it daily, doesn't mean i get it daily. But i normally want it all the time. As soon as i got bigger around 30 weeks, sex was uncomfortable and not interesting. I find being on top can be uncomfortable because of the weight so we spoon or me underneath but its hard with my belly. I like me on top on a chair because he sitting up rather then laying down i don't know but its better. I feel you have to make the most of it before birth because you can't for a while after. I think my DH has to make more of a effort with foreplay to get me more relaxed so it can be more enjoyable for both of us. Lube is always a big help too. But its just getting too weird now when you feel your pushing the baby's head out the way when your in the middle of it.
Last edited by Lozza; July 27th, 2008 at 05:02 PM.
I'm Lozza's DH. Our sex life has definitely changed since the baby has been there, but it's still there. Sure, some positions we can't do any more, purely because it's too uncomfortable for her. And for me, it feels a little weird when I can feel the baby's head inside when I'm inside.... It's a little off putting.
Now, it's either missionary with a pillow under her butt, or her on top. Neither last long though as it gets uncomfortable. So every time we have sex, I have to try and break my previous speed record so it doesn't hurt her. I've got it down to under a minute now, gonna see if I can better that time this arvo
And hey, there's nothing wrong with both being naked and close while she lets the fingers do the walking!
We have some additional problems to add to the big belly.
We are both overweight so have more 'flab' that gets in the way, plus DBF is a foot taller than me to doggy doesn't work too well for us. Damn IT!
Lately it's me on top, but I don't orgasim that way either, so we have quite a long foreplay before hand where DBF makes sure that I orgasim first (providing that's what I want which sometimes I just don't have the energy for). We have to use lots of lube too as I have been quite dry. Luckily bubs hasn't kicked me in the middle of it all yet to put us off. lol
It's not that exciting, but we both get pleasure and release and atm that's all we're focussing on.
Both of us can't wait for bubs to be born and for me to be healed and enjoy our sex life again.
Well i make my DP do his thing with help of some toys first which gets me off and then when im done we have sex, i hate missionary as i get paranoid hes gonna squash her so instead i kinda put my legs up over his shoulders and he does his thing. You can do this on the side of the bed if DP/H is tall/er cause it works better. Doggy is my fav but i cant do it lately cause it is really uncomfortable.
Anything is worth a try, i'd just experiment with lots of different positions.
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