In need of serious help re: unplanned pregnancy!

[MsBertie]

If it were only him I had been sleeping with, it wouldn't matter, he would step up (probably still request a paternity test but I'd know 100% he was, where in this case I can't). But because there is no 100% guarantee it's his he is being hostile...I guess I would too in the same situation.

[C~Q]

I think it's important to take your time...rely on your friends and talk/think through all your options

[Phteven]

Sorry to hear the potential Dad is being a douche. IMO you should just look after you for now and deal with the paternity issues after your baby arrives.

[MsBertie]

I don't know if I can look after another baby by myself. Financially, I definitely can't. I struggle with one.
So many decisions.

[little_mrs]

your dating scan should help out a bit more, and who knows once he sees you start growing and the shock wears off he might want to be more involved

Good luck sweet, hope things work out for you, and we're always on here either way!