Well as some of you may know, DF is joining the Air Force. He has his assessment day on 19th May and when he passes that he'll have his fitness test, which has to be no earlier than 8 weeks before he goes to basic training. So working that out, he'll probably start training end july/early august, which is in Adelaide. I'll be around 30 weeks pregnant then. The thing is, training lasts for 10 weeks. So he will finish right when i'm due to have bub. Chances are i will go over, but you never can tell when a baby will come. What am i going to do if he is still in Adelaide and i'm having the baby? He'll miss it, which is desvistating enough, but i have no one else to be a support person during labour and i have to have a close friend or family member(i wouldnt do it alone anyway). I don't have any sisters and my mum can't come in because she hates the thought of me in pain, so she said she would freak out. I have an aunty who used to be a nurse but i'm not going to be comfortable with her in that position. I have no friends i trust enough to be there with me. I have no one! What the hell am i going to do?!