Aww you guys are so awesome.
Its so great to hear that others are also going through this. I think what bites more is our drive is basically also based on our emotions (which are usually all over the place in pregnancy) whereas our mens drive are a physical thing. (Lol I cant think of the right word so thing will do)
I can relate on so many levels with you ladies (except the "all day or ms" sickness). Im lucky I dont have that. But I too am ready for bed by 8, and because I cant sleep on my stomach anymore i have to sleep on my side which leave my hips aching all day long. Not to mention the groin constantly aching (that I think I should probably get checked by doc or midwife) and so on. Im not sure if I have ever moaned this much in my life until this this pregnancy.
Hopefully things pick up soon for us all!!!