I would give the WCH a call and see if there is a chance you can get in there, they have a great MW run Birth Centre as well a few friends have gone through and have had wonderful experiences.

If they can't help, even after begging and pleading Perhaps you could look at an independant MW or having a Doula to support you independantly, and looked at a shared care option with your GP all separate from the hospital system. The IM and Doula would be able to provide you with the support aht I think you are looking for and can do check ups at home and be there for you. Home birth with and IM is also an option

There are a couple of member I could ask to pop into this thread to also help out
Take care and all the best xxoo