Are you depressed at all or do you just lack motivation? I know that with my second pregnancy, I didn't have the boundless energy that I seemed to have first time around. I was so tired all the time and couldn't move properly and just didn't have the energy required to take care of a toddler to the point of being an entertainment machine 24/7. What you typed sounds exactly how I felt. I just wanted to lay down!!! I honestly think it was because I had a toddler to chase after and look after and no time to look after myself or nest or anything like that. Also, I knew what I was in for, so the crazy anticipation of the first time around is dulled a tiny bit by the realism that we now know after having raised a newborn to a toddler already. I think, as long as you aren't depressed for any reason, that what you are feeling is normal for a second pregnancy for some people (me hahaha). Not sure what other people's experiences have been like. The good news is, having two kids is fantastic and worth all the tough pregnancy and newborn phase. I love it! Good luck hun. Hang in there ;-)