afternoon ladies
havent posted in a while as i have been quite ill with the flu. so today i am exactly 31 weeks and 1day and must i say as much as i am loving the experience of being pregnant and i am well and truely over it. never in my life have i felt so looked down upon is it so bad that i am 21 and pregnant?
i was at cotton on kids with my DP and this elderly lady rudely pointed at me and said to her family "oh that girl should be shopping for party outfits not jump suits." i just smiled and continued shopping, on returning home i was extremly upset i know its just one persons opinion but how can someone judge me when they dont know me or my DP.
my DP has been so great the past few days but after this ordeal i am having a few doubts about my ability to care for my soon to be son at this age compared to in 3-4years then ontop of that, i have my baby shower next week in which my DP's mum is hosting (i love my partners mother) but she has gone ahead and planned this huge shower with aunties and cousins and family friends i havent even fully met yet, funniest thing is that on the bottom of the invite it states that this is "sue and jace's" grandchild.
when first discussed i was under the impression it would be a few close family and friends, nothing to flash then to my discust his mother calls him last night and gives the
RSVP for his ex girlfriend, i understand they are friends because of this previous relationship and whatnot, but i for one thought this was supposed to be my day!
i dont have the heart to tell my partner how i feel because i dont want his mother to think i am ungrateful, because im not i love what she is doing for us but what do you ladies think? should i suck it up and deal with it or say something?
thanks for listening ladies