I think thats completely up to you, bugger family who criticise. We are the opposite, would rather wait til Jazz is 2 or 3 before trying for the next one, and we're getting criticism from people saying "wouldn't you rather them close together" "they wont be close" and comments about jazz getting used to being the only one and being spoiled. Damned if you damned if you don't..... just forget everyone else and make the decision thats best for you :hugs: