Funny....a year ago today i went to a counsellor, coz i was pg with baby #4 and honestly, honestly didnt know if i could handle it. I remember pulling over in my car, crying my heart out to my mum on the phone telling her 'ive got the worst news...im pregnant...again'. You know, looking back now, its the godamn best thing that has ever happened to us. He is a delight, he is our little boy we had always been dreaming of but never thought we would have, i throughly enjoyed my pregnancy and labour with him...i think after the inital shock, i really embraced it....you will too hon...
I get comments all the time with 4...so i can only imagine what you do, and will go thru.
Man...it takes time to adjust....it really does. We didnt tell people till i was 14 wks pg....cos we both needed time to get used to it. We fought, we both cried, we both laughed.....it was only a year ago, but it seems like a lifetime ago. Coz now, i just do it, im in the baby groove, just prodding along, and im really enjoying it......and i reckon you will too hon, come next June......
Congratulations Jodie! What a shock it must be! You are a wonderful mummy and this little baby has come to you for a reason. Don't worry about what anyone else says, I don't understand it anyway, how can having lots of babies be a bad thing? Sorry to hear about your sister.
Wow. That's a bit overwhelming. You don't come across as ungrateful at all (I would totally tell you) just completely overwhelmed, and it's not surprising!
But you'll be fine! It will be incredible. Congratulations.
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Sorry to hear about your sister.
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