Hi Ladies,
I am pregnant and due in July. I'm very excited about being at home with bub once he/she arrives, however i am a little concerned about my mum. This will be her first grandchild, and naturally, she's really excited.
My concern is is that she may being getting a little carried away. She has recently purchased a pram, a cot, a change table, a bassinet, a bouncer, a car seat a high chair etc. for herself to use and keep at her house, as well as this she has informed my husband and I that she intends to set up the cot/bassinet/change table in her own bedroom...... not the spare room (which she has 2 of..)
My husband and I live in our own home and will have everything we need . Of coarse I may have my mother babysit occassionally, i still can't justify why she is setting up a nursery in her home, my husband is convinced she thinks she is the one having the baby, not me.... she has even tried to tell me that you have to have the baby shower at her house... she also wanted to take a month off work when the baby is born to stay at our house (she lives 2min away), then she got really upset when i told her my husband is planning to have a month off and stay home with his new child...
Am i over reacting? I am concerned that after bub is born she may be exteremly disappointed to find that the bub is not spending nearly enough time over at her place to make enough use of all the things she has brought! My dad tells me just to let it go and she will calm down, however its only getting worse... Even if I mention my husbands parents looking after the baby she gets upset.. She is driving me crazy...

I hope I haven't carried on to much , but i really need people help and opinions...