Onja, it sounds to me like you're doing everything you can to be healthy for your babe. You need to be realistic about it, and know that you will put on weight. You're growing a baby, you have extra fluid, extra blood....your body is changing. Stop worrying baout the weight gain and just be healthy.

I was about 78ish kg when I fell pg with DD. I put on about 7-8kg. I didn't lose much of it before falling pg with DS when DD was 7mths old. I gained about 9kg with him, so ended up being around 95-ish kg. I was exercising and eating really well during my pg with DD but with DS, I didn't exercise alot, wasn't working full time and wasn't really watching what I ate. Adn still I put on about the same amount of weight I did with DD's pg. Basically I am trying to say that your body will naturally even out what nutrients it needs to sustain you and bub. If you're fairly healthy about it all and do things within healthy ranges (ie- eating and exercise), you will remain healthy. Tyr not to stress about it and enjoy your pg and your changing body! Worry about losing weight a few months after bubs is born.