yeh i dont know about getting paps done while preg? but i thought id give u some hope by saying i find pap tsets very painful and i delivered my baby naturally.... i find people touching my cervix very painful... i asked for internals to be rare and only if necessary...
your body will open up as nature intended, have u thought about trying an epi-no? preparing yourself mentally for this process is very important, u dont want to stop your own labour thru fear...
Have faith tho, the womans body is a magical thing.