Yarra, I'm glad to hear she's doing well now. I hope you get that good long cuddle today!
Miss M, congratulations! I was very bloated at the beginning too and it went away around the 10wk mark, so you may find your waistline goes up and down a bit until you start getting a proper bump. I was lucky that the maternity pants I bought for work could actually be adjusted in when the bloating went away or I'd have been in trouble. I've bought my maternity clothes new (I never buy many clothes so I figured I could splurge, plus I've not bought that many because it's hard to find anything that works for me) so I can't help on the 2nd hand options.

