I'm NOT that big!!!!

[skybie]

i'm not going out into public anymore, visiting anyone or posting pics on FB of my growing belly.
everywhere i go, everyone needs to comment on how huge i am. i get the eyes of pity and oh u must be struggling ect ect.
MIL even had the nerve to ask if my dates were right because 'im so huge'!

all i want is for some stranger to as how llong i have left (which everyone feels is their duty to ask) and when i tell them have them turn around and go u look fantastic.
no togo ohhh really,must be a big baby in there, with their eyes nearly falling out of their heads!

i'm a slender person, im sorry i havent really put on weight anywhere else besides my belly and it looks like a freakin basketballs been shoved up there!

vent over

for those not on my FB-
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pi...4&id=505710848

[Beautiful Disaster]

I think it looks gorgeous. I was just this min admiring it

[Jas]

I agree it is a beautiful baby bump! Ver yjealous of the stretchmark free bump!!! And I don't think you are as huge as everyone is making out!!...and I'm not just saying that...you look just the perfect size to me!

[Elocin]

I think it looks gorgeous. I was just this min admiring it

Me too...

I think it's a fabulous bump hun!!!

[~Hestia~]

Ooooh yes, I remember those comments. Used to drive me crazy so you have my sympathy!

I just saw your new pics and I think you have a gorgeous bump

[starangelk]

You look fantastic in that pic!! The same thing happened to me and I just blamed DH for being tall and left it at that. It was super annoying but on the upside, at least you can be assured that the comments are probably just because you are all belly

[~clover~]

I got the same at 12/13 weeks, coz I was bloated.
She was comparing me to her daughter...It was my FOURTH pregnancy! Her Daughter was on her 2nd baby, 7 years after her first. She was still asking close to the end if I had my dates right & I really wasn't all that big! No bigger than her daughter. (You probably saw my pics)

She was the only one though. Everone else told me I was tiny, evenn though I didn't feel it.

I think your belly is perfect Its not big, just looks like he's got his butt poked right out

[tippytoes]

You look stunning!!! I was the same hun, I took it as a compliment! Be proud, you are growing a beautiful baby in that belly
Rach x

[~Lashes~]

naww thats a beautifull belly!!
not big at all, just as it should be!!

[Ilithyia]

You've got yourself a Beautiful Baby Bump there!

Your lookin great for 33 weeks!

[Indadhanu]

I think you look absolutely gorgeous! And I think it's the perfect shape and size!

[Purple Penguin]

what a gorgeous bump!

[Shades]

I can't view it

For what it's worth I would've loved to have a really big baby belly - I never looked heavily pregnant so much as heavily fat and slightly pregnant!!

I bet they're all just jealous!

[PumpkinZulu]

I JUST commented on a belly pic of yours before I saw this thread! Psht, I don't think you look too big, pretty smack bang on 33 weeks to me! Lol maybe if your body was fat your bump would look smaller but you're not so everyone is going

I get it too..."oh you're going to have a big baby!!" Get it from my dumbass MIL all the time, and I'm like no, bub is measuring on dates, and she'll say, oh but that doesn't include fat. Ummm, shut up idiot, don't speak to me. I feel your pain but I really think you look gorgeous!

[skybie]

thanks for the booster ladies, it was hard over chrissy and new years because of all the ur so big comments i felt fat and frumpy when i'd put every effort in to look decent. now i just feel like flopping around home in trackies and a big tshirt.
the girls were both around the 3.5kg mark so expecting this one to be a bit bigger but nothing crazy.
its my 3rd baby, and i carry my kids out in front, if u saw me from behind u wouldnt even know i was pregnant.

i just wish i could turn around to strangers and say that skirt makes ur ass look fat so then theyd feel how i do after their stupid comments

[~clover~]

Next time they tell you its going to be a big bub, just say good, nice & healthy
We know belly size is no indication of baby size anyway!

[Melbournemumma]

I think you look gorgeous!

Fwiw I always had a littler belly with ds and was told I was havin a small baby! Tell that to my 10 pound little heffalump! Ds was huge.

Proudly show off your gorgeous bump lovely

[beckoes]

you look beautiful! its such a perfect round bump! gorgeous! i wish my bum hadnt grown to compensate for my belly like you, not sure which is bigger, my belly or my bum!! ! but people still feel the need to ask if im sure im not having twins! which irks me! someone commented that i must be ready to pop the other week....NO, i still have 10 weeks to go thank you!
A favoured reply to the 'my god your huge' comment is 'well there is an entire human being in there!!!' that tends to leave them with a dumb look on thier faces!
I also find it helps to think 'well i am pregnant, whats your excuse' (only in your head though)