Ha!! YES the main culprit for me was this lady at work (who I think actually is an alcoholic, but I'm not 100% sure) and she kept on hassling me and asking why I wouldnt have any alcohol. It didnt help that the culture at work was all about drinking and party. There was a bar across the road and at least once a week most of the office would be over there drinking alcohol paid for on the boss's work credit card. It was so hard to get through to them that NOT HAVING ALCOHOL IS NOT GOING TO HURT MY BABY, but having alcohol could hurt baby... what option am I going to choose??? hmm.... They all thought I was some freak! Luckily they stopped hassling me after a while so that was nice. Its not that I hate hat others drink alcohol when pregnant, its more that people were hassling me and not respecting what I was doing.