I think a fair few people are quite outspoken on BB in relation to their preferences but I've found the majority of BB members to be supportive of women and men no matter what their choices or preferences. I hope your experiences haven't been negative. I'm sure one of the mods can put the philosophy of BB more eloquently than I but overall I think BB is a gentle parenting website but at the same time accepting of all parenting, birth and pregnancy styles and choices. That's been my experience anyway.