ok heres my problem. warning its pretty gross (DH was disgusted when i mentioned to him and cann't beleive i am actually asking you girls)

i have been getting constipated and just cannot seem to make myself go to the toilet when i want to. this in itself isn't that big a deal, but i can only go after i have really bad cramps and then i sweat heavily and go really cold like i have a fever. then once i get over the inital poo (sorry TMI) all that follows is really bad diarea.

i was in pain most of last night, first needing to go to the loo and then fevered and faint once i actually managed to start going.

so i actually have two questions for everyone. first, is this normal?

and second does anyone know what i can do about it?

if it continues i will tell my ob about it when i see her next wed, but i just wanted to know if it is something i should worry about now, or if i can do anything about it.