Hi Ally,
Did they give you any reason as to why this happened to you after the birth of your son? I know I had a rather crappy experiance with my ds and I got really sick and hemoraged *sp*? about 6 weeks after he was born as there was a tennis ball size peice of placenta left behind and I was pretty adimate that I was not having anymore but mother nature works in mysteriouse ways thats for sure LOL and with my dd it was much more pleasant cant say much good about the midwife as she was rude and obnoxious but I got better alot quicker thqat time and now i want no 3 see I told you this mother nature chick nows her job hehehehe I agree with Simone make sure you have a birth plan and try to stay very calm and talk to your dr and midwife about everything you are worried about voice your concearns and ask heaps of questions, I think our firsts are always hard as we dont know what we to expect where as with your second or 3rd and so on you have been there and done that so you kinda know what goes on, I hope things turn out ok for you and that you have your second baby with out a hassle good luck with it all :flower:

Simone wow what a horrible experiance it must have been for you when you had Xander I am glad you didn't let it stop you from having more babies good luck this time round :flower: .