All those fears and worries are normal and healthy. Trying to bring a baby into your lives is a big deal, and is so worth the time to think and get used to the idea when you do get that BFP. I am 3 kids in, and each time I got that beautiful, and much loved BFP I had fears and moments of panic and doubt about how our lives would change. It is normal and our way of processing the magnitude of new life.
Give yourself time to process and you'll find that before you know it, the joy will be there and the excitement. Try to think of it as a brand new journey that you and your DP are taking, one that is so incredibly special and one that is not taken every day...this is what makes it special and scary all rolled into one i reckon!
Wishing you all the best for the coming weeks xx
i love BB.... you always know what and how to say it to make everything seem much less scary. thank you ladies
at work, normally there's 3 of us in our office, 1 is stuck in WA delayed flight, 1 is my DF and he's in a meeting all day. i'm not allowed to leave the office unattended, so i have been feeling very sick all morning. DF just came back after 3 hours for a 10 min break, so i bolted to the toilet.
it feels like our m/c is happening all over again. i'm not ready for this!!!! when i wipe there's brown on the toilet paper. i'm feeling crampy like AF, bloated, sick.. so unless the test i took was faulty/evap.. we may m/c again... or it might be a breakthrough bleed? who knows.....
i'm just so all over the place with emotion today. i have no idea what i'm feeling. i just want to go home and test.
Last edited by Mummy&Daddy2Be; October 31st, 2012 at 10:39 AM.
Oh hun. FX its just breakthrough bleeding. Brown (old) blood is good hun.![]()
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Hey lovey, I had 'breakthrough bleeding' on the day that AF was due, after having a nice bright BFP a few days earlier. Obviously with our history I freaked the heck out, I was inconsolable! It stopped that day and then there was a spot more the next night. I was also AF crampy for a few days around then. Nothing since and I'm still getting ridiculously dark lines and a few symptoms. So try not to freak out just yet. I know exactly how tough that is but honestly, it might be just fine!!
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