This pgcy was a bit of a suprise to find out we were having a boy as we BD 2-3 days before O and from that we assumed the male sperm would have all been dead. Well we were happily wrong (we wanted a boy, but the BD was not really planned and I O'd earlier than expected so we went from safe to pg). Sometimes I think it's all a game of chance. With Kat, I had O pains and I BD and so we thought boy, nope, girl. Jess was a big suprise. I hope you get the sex u want hon. But if not, gives u an excuse to go again in a yr or so's time hehehe