I'm Lozza's DH. Our sex life has definitely changed since the baby has been there, but it's still there. Sure, some positions we can't do any more, purely because it's too uncomfortable for her. And for me, it feels a little weird when I can feel the baby's head inside when I'm inside.... It's a little off putting.
Now, it's either missionary with a pillow under her butt, or her on top. Neither last long though as it gets uncomfortable. So every time we have sex, I have to try and break my previous speed record so it doesn't hurt her. I've got it down to under a minute now, gonna see if I can better that time this arvo
And hey, there's nothing wrong with both being naked and close while she lets the fingers do the walking!
We have some additional problems to add to the big belly.
We are both overweight so have more 'flab' that gets in the way, plus DBF is a foot taller than me to doggy doesn't work too well for us. Damn IT!
Lately it's me on top, but I don't orgasim that way either, so we have quite a long foreplay before hand where DBF makes sure that I orgasim first (providing that's what I want which sometimes I just don't have the energy for). We have to use lots of lube too as I have been quite dry. Luckily bubs hasn't kicked me in the middle of it all yet to put us off. lol
It's not that exciting, but we both get pleasure and release and atm that's all we're focussing on.
Both of us can't wait for bubs to be born and for me to be healed and enjoy our sex life again.
Well i make my DP do his thing with help of some toys first which gets me off and then when im done we have sex, i hate missionary as i get paranoid hes gonna squash her so instead i kinda put my legs up over his shoulders and he does his thing. You can do this on the side of the bed if DP/H is tall/er cause it works better. Doggy is my fav but i cant do it lately cause it is really uncomfortable.
Anything is worth a try, i'd just experiment with lots of different positions.
For me, it's like the first time in my life where I have actually begged for it, and been refused!!
Didn't even get anything special (in the bedroom) for our second wedding anniversary! ... oh, sorry... I lied... he gave me a peck on the lips! aren't i lucky!
last time we went for it we started but then the little unit decided to start dancing - I just couldnt get kinky with her rolling around... so half an hour later we start again.
And it was actually great! Then as soon as we stopped she started dancing again. DF says it was her protest against the earthquake she just had to go through.......
Oh Toni i feel for you sweetie. I just take it, he could refuse but his penis has a mind of its own so he doesnt get a choice. lol
Kitt3n- I know what ya mean its so distracting and annoying, the one time when you dont wanna remember they are there and they start moving and kicking. lol
Lol Alyssas Mum - we tried the side of the bed and there's still too much height diff. Maybe once I'm back to my normal flexibility things mught be different.
Only one more sleep til I'm induced so not too long to wait.
Oh yay Becci thats awesome, good luck and i hope everything goes well. Don't forget to post pics of bubs when your back at home and get the chance. lol
Oh gawd, we tried the other night and it was so uncomfortable. I took my little black slip off in the middle of it and then I just felt weird watching my tummy slapping against my husband's (I was on top),but I knew he wanted to look at my body because he finds me very sexy in pregnancy. I think I'll keep the slip on next time. I tried to prop myself up with pillows, but I kept slipping and then I couldn't breath.
You could have made an entire sitcom episode out of that little encounter.
Anyway, the thing is that vaginal sex just doesn't feel ... anything now. There was no friction. If you came looking for TMI, here we go. I had a feel "in there" in the shower is it's all gooey and soft, not solid and structured like it used to be.
Anyway, I think I'll just stick with the old vibratamatron (with my husband's help) because the outside bits still work just fine.
last week DF managaed to give me an amazing O, but i fear this will be the last for a while - i just dont feel much of him inside with this belly in the way! (and all my sexy o feelings kinda fly out the door when i get a belly kick ).
still trying different things - but i am just so tired at the end of the day - when i wake up though i am fresh and frisky but there is no time before work!!!
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