With this pregnancy i have only told people i'm due in February and that's it and they havent asked for a specific date. To be honest, half the people i know don't even know i'm pregnant!

With regards to labour, we're having a homebirth and i won't get much support of this descion so only MIL will know as she looking after the other 2 kids. No one has actually asked where i'm having the baby so luckly i have avoid that. I will let them know probably the next day after bub is born. But then again, we have no family close by so i wouldnt have any hassles of people waiting about anyway.