I was wondering about this - is it just a western phenomenon or is it because other cultures accept death more readily than we do and don't need to have a reason? Or because there are so many causes of death that go undiagnosed that babies do die of SIDS and their cause of death (or lack thereof) goes unnoticed? Is it just a phenomenon that we give a label to, as with depression, or are there actual studies showing that these things don't exist in other cultures?
I am asking a genuine question, not trying to make a point. I really don't know much about other cultures and I am interested to know how we know these phenomenons don't exist in other cultures.
I also agree to a degree with your other point Mayaness that people don't co-sleep out of fear of killing their babies, but I also think that the evidence is so inconclusive that it is fair enough to explore all issues. I don't agree with it being used as a vehicle to control what parents do or don't do with their babies because of societal values.
I think lots of parents still make many decisions that aren't 'SIDS friendly' and while they are aware of the info, they still sleep their baby on their tummy or put bumpers in their cot. Lots of people make choices despite what the advice is because that is how the information is intepreted in their family against the risk. People do what works best - I have read plenty of threads of people with babies who have difficulty settling on their back so they put them on their tummy. I have friends who do this too - it is the way they intepret the risk but it doesn't mean the info shouldn't be available or it is wrong. It also doesn't mean people that who sleep their babies on their tummies are wrong. I think it helps us to weigh up the risk and make a decision. I persisted with sleeping my babies on their back though I think they may have settled better on their tummies because that is what I felt comfortable with. I don't think I have been bullied into that decision by misinformation, I think I have made an informed decision. I know what the research says and I have intepreted it as it pertains to my family. I think the issue of co-sleeping is very much the same. People who value it, do it because they see the risk as very minimal.
I think SIDS and Kids position on sharing a sleep surface is changing and it is becoming a more acceptable practice as far as that goes.
I do understand your frustration, but the job of SIDS is to reduce the instances of fatal sleeping accidents and there has been some investigation into co-sleeping. I think the information has been confused with the definition of a sleep surface - beds are certainly safer than sofas and the state of parents also plays a role, but there is evidence that sleep accidents do take place in sharing sleep surfaces, albeit incredibly rare.There is much debate in the literature about the practice and definition of bed sharing. For the purpose of this statement the term sharing the same sleep surface is used which includes bed sharing and cosleeping practices. Sharing a sleep surface with a baby is a complex issue that encompasses many factors, and there is currently insufficient evidence to issue a blanket statement either for or against this practice. 6
Several studies have demonstrated that babies who sleep in close proximity to their mothers have better outcomes relating to successful initiation and duration of breastfeeding.7-9 A randomised study of infant sleeping location demonstrated that side-car cribs that attach to the mother’s bed are effective in enhancing breastfeeding initiation and preserving infant safety in the postnatal ward.9
My dad was an ambulance officer for about 10 years. He thinks that I am insane for putting my baby in bed with me as he attended a number of instances where women did roll on their babies while co-sleeping and it was fatal. I can completely understand his point of view but I feel that it is a safe practice for me because I am aware of my baby when she is asleep in my bed with me. I don't co-sleep all night but I do from about 4am - 7am and I also do for a bit at midnight when my baby has a feed. The reason I don't co-sleep fulltime is that I don't find it physically comfortable because I don't roll at all when my baby is in bed with me. I sleep much better when she is in her own cot, next to my bed. That's just me. I am not a person who enjoys a lot of physical contact. I like it in moderation, even from DH so I do feel that I need some personal space and I like it while I am sleeping. I do love co-sleeping too but just can't do it all the time. I love waking up and watching my baby sleep and I love being able to cuddle her without the interruption and I love being close to her.
I guess my point is that although it is very very rare that people roll on their babies during sleep and other accidents occur (such as suffocating in blankets and pillows), it does happen and that information needs to be acknowledged. If someone else rolled on their baby during sleep and that info was not available, there would be an outcry that this info was not available. I guess they air on the side of caution but I think it is hard to balance all the evidence in statistics with what is good for babies. I think that is a balance each parent needs to draw for their own baby. Each family has different values and priorities and I guess that makes a difference when intepreting this evidence and how that plays out in their own home.
I think that is good that SIDS is starting to do further research into this topic and they are starting to change their position on it. I think the more recent studies have been more directed and in depth rather than lumping statistics together.
Here is the current information statement on co-sleeping from SIDS and Kids: http://www.sidsandkids.org/documents...nStatement.pdf
I know that it is not pro co-sleeping and there is a lot to be desired about making parents feel comfortable to be doing it, but I think that SIDS have to take into account many different aspects and not just be pro one parenting choice. There main job is to communicate risk and current research and that is why I think it is important for parents to look into this issue for themselves and make the choice they are comfortable making.


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I truly get the hideous grief at a possible answer too late for your little Niece. I am so sorry... 
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