thanks so much for your help im especially glad to hear about once you see a heartbeat is very very slim for something to go wrong, and that if there is bleeding you can still be okay! i check like a maniac, i dont know what id do if i found anything without knowing it could still be alright. i think talking to my belly and also saying something outloud if i worry will help alot aswell. thankyou

also i thought i might ask - is there any particular stage where its safest to get dental work done? i fractured one of my teeth and they want to pull it out, but at the moment its not giving me any trouble. should i wait?