ok Softy.... here was my recipe for getting dd coming....

I had a lovely LONG bath. Added rose oil and lavender oil. Soaked for quite some time.
Then as per the MW instructions we DTD. But instead of the usual "argh i dont feel like this i am doing this because i feel sorry for DH" i really tried to get into the mood, relaxed and had fun (sorry TMI lol). Anyways, contractions started about 2 hours after.... Always worth a shot