Melinda

I felt the same when pg with Alex.
How would Kimberley be.
Would she hurt him in anyway.
I was worried how Kimberley would do without me when i was in hospital and she was ok some days she cried when she left.

But now Alex is here Kimberley is great and to watch her playing with her dolls and doing what i do is wonderful.
She asks to hug Alex now and if he is having floor time she stays with him.

Maybe buy Jacob a doll and teach him what you will do with the baby before he/she comes along.