All fantastic info here ladies!! Thanks!

Cash is a great idea Maz, i think if i were to go down that path id make it completely annonymous so if people couldnt afford it they wouldnt feel bad IYKWIM? Plus im not too fussed on the actual pressies i just cant wait to get together with all my family & friends & ooo and aahh over the bubba

I always go overboard with food didi will try my best not too, am thinking of making it in the arvo so might just do cakes & things like that