Hi Everyone,

I'm at a little bit of a loss and could do with some guidance. Got a BFP this morning and am waiting for the BT results but am not sure how or when to tell my Dad or my in laws.
Both sets of parents are interstate and don't come to Vic much. Dad often feels guilty he hasn't met my brother's kids yet (4, 3, and 1 all in NSW) so I don't know how to tell him - I'm afraid he will feel guilty for not being here for me. Also, I want to choose who knows (for the first 3 months), not my Step Mother who will blab to EVERYONE who will listen. Any suggestions on how to deal with her (we don't get along at all).
And how do I tell my in laws (also interstate) - neither DH or I are close to his mother, just his father.
So, how did you tell your family?

Thanks!

MG