Amby baby hammock!!! Imran still has his day naps in it and he's just over one.

A good digital camera - you'll want to take so many photos.

A cordless phone - so you don't have to try and get up for the phone in the middle of a breast feed and if bubs goes to sleep on you you can ring DH and ask for a glass of water.

I used a bath with my first but Imran got washed in the sink or in the big bath with just a centimeter or 2 of water or in the shower with me - it was so much easier on my back.

If you're only planning on the occasional pump a manual would be fine. For lots of pumping electric might be easier.