I agree with Ryn and recommend you try out some different baby carriers before buying. I had a baby bjorn but found it hurt my back and bub didn't feel very secure in it. My Hug-a-bub on the other hand is perfect!

C.D player with music (we have Music for Dreaming) in bub's room - is part of our sleep routine...when Ella heard it she was comforted by the familiarity and she'd know it was sleep time.

Large muslin wraps - these were invaluable as they wrapped around bub keeping her tucked in tight and secure and are breathable so we could throw them over the pram...

Avent Isis breast pump and steraliser. The pump really helped establish b/f as it relieved the full breasts so that bub could attach correctly. For the first few months i'd also express throughout the day so that DH could do the early night feed while he was still awake and i got to go to bed early so i had a chunk of sleep before the 3am feed. If you are planning to b/f then i'd go with the microwave one cause it's quick and convenient and doesn't take up too much room. Prob not big enough to do the job if you f/f though.

Lanosil (?) nipple cream.
Curash cream and powder - for first sign of nappyrash
Pigeon breast pads - soft, mould into bra nicely, very absorbant and not too thick.

Large playmat - so bub could have her own play space in front of me and enjoy tummytime, toys...

Play gym - to entertain and stimulate bub and encourage kicking, grabbing...

Oh there are so many fab things - have fun with it!!!!