Awww Tanya, I can totally understand! I had not even thought of the sex for this baby as I just couldn't deal with the let down of have another of the same sex.

I can also understand your feeling of being disconnected - I think we do it for self preservation until we can sort through it a bit iykwim.

I am assuming this was your early scan? I was told at my 12 week scan with DS NO 2 that I was having a girl, and then found out at my 20 week scan that it was in fact a boy. Not to say your sonographer didn't know what they were doing, but you never know it just may have been a little to early to see clearly!

HUgs to you!