I fell pregnant the second month we were together. He had basically told me on our third date that he wouldn't hesitate to have kids with me (I was 37 at the time, so obviously it was going to need to be talked about at some point). He was very surprised but very supportive and there was absolutely no way either of us considered a termination. Sadly, I miscarried that baby.
with my ex-df i was with him less than a month when I fell preg, he pushed me into a termination in the nicest way he could: guilt trip. "imagine the life the kid would have, we cant afford to provide for it" etc.
We only lasted a year after that, as i wasnt allowed to feel sad about my loss, he would tell me "its done with get over it" pretty much.
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