(Vent) "I bet the next one wont be such a good baby"

[Netix]

Deal your wrath! It is very insensitive to say that, or as happened to me, the opposite (Dd had terrible reflux, screamed 12hours a day). At the time I was too exhausted and petrified that baby #2 *was* going to be a screamer like Dd to respond in a defensive way. Don't put up with it.

[Razzberry]

I understand totally!!
Except people are saying it the other way round: Your next one will be a "good baby" since E was so "BAD" Miss E was not "BAD" she had/has severe gastro reflux which in turn has caused the sleep problems etc.

Makes me so sad when people Label your lil ones!!

[MummyNaomi]

OMIGOD, I had to endure this AGAIN today - again from the MIL
Took all my patience not to tell her to take a flying leap.

Did growl at her though that my Little girl will "Perfectly FINE!!!" and then decided it was time to take my little family home!