Meh, hairiness schmairiness! DP knows the only reason I do legs and underarms is for HIM...so he can feel guilty about his social imposition on me :P My bikini I do for me - leaving landing strip cos or I feel a bit weird and I don't need that off for what I wax for. I love the feel, love how it feels when in water and LOVE, LOVE, LOVE that I get no chafing when horse riding! Them's my practical considerations
I am disturbed by the denigration of body hair and that young people see it as a necessity. It seems like a dumb fixation and a wholesale recommendation for girls and women to do. But I think the same about skinny jeans (ha! managed to avoid THAT fashion dictate!) and now those new baggy/skinny shorts...no thanks, not just cos everyone else is doing it!
Anyhow, I guess it's about what is deemed to look sexy when sending vis sms...