I think I had about 1 glass a month with Liebs. Months 1 and 2 I didn't realise I was pg so maybe a bit more. Then there was the glass when I visited my Austrian friend (3m), my cousin's wedding (5m), Grandma's 80th (6m), Christmas (8m)... a small glass of wine with food and a healthy diet is unlikely to cause many problems. There's still a chance, but it's about managing risk.