we had a baby shower for ds, and we did it a bit differently, we had a huge afternoon tea in the state forest, with all our family and friends, male and female, to celebrate the impending birth of our baby boy.
we didn't play any games, but all the kids ran around madly, and df and i thanked everyone and said how excited we were etc.
it was a great day, and we got heeeaapps of stuff for the boy!