I agree, there is no normal amount.

I have gained most of my weight (15kg) between week 16 and week 32. I lost weight this week. To me, 15kg sounds like a lot but I am all bump and boobs and my clothes all still fit me (except round the bump area obviously - I mean around the bottom and legs).

6kg is what YOU'VE gained, that is obviously where your body feels comfortable and I have no idea why your care givers are making such a fuss about it - we no longer judge how well a pregnancy is going on weight gain. Are they concerned because they think it's too much or too little??

Sounds like you're going great guns to me love!!
Sue xx