Or there's my experience from the other side-- For the full story go to to the boo hoo section and read Shmickers post (he is my husband) but basically I am a midwife that used to teach classes in a non jugemental and non opinonated way whilst making sure to teach both sides of everything so coupkes could make up their own mind, Until I got sacked-(well asked not to continue) because I was "giving women choices" and I should have been teaching only what the hospital wanted them to hear!!!!!! I am now a full time sahm who's been badly hurt. It seems you can't do right for doing wrong.