I told Tilly before 4 weeks!!! I couldn't handle the thought of someone else telling her, or her hearing it on the "grapevine" I would've died. So she found out very early and it was a lONG pregnancy for her!! Things can go wrong, but I had two friends at the time that had problems at 39-40 weeks, so I thought it was as good a time as ever at 4 weeks. Mind you, I didn't have risk factors and would've considered that if I did. But I really wanted Tilly to be the first to know.
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