I am such a private person. I would find it incredibly difficult to have to go back and tell people that I lost the baby. It is something that I just want to go through with my DH if it ever happens. I dont know why this is such a private issue for me.

I have tried to ask my OBS about the chances of m/c after 12 weeks, and when the placenta kicks in, but he (rudely) refuses to talk about it, and says that we can deal with it when / if it happens. He prefers for his patients to think positive. I would rather be informed .