Myson - that wasn't too negative at all. m/c is tough . I am just a private person and want wait til at least 12 weeks or longer if the placenta hasn't kicked in by then, but I don't know how to tell???

I have almost come to the conclusion anyway that I will wait til 14 weeks. However a coworker saw me receive an email notification from BB today so maybe the grapevine will start spreading the news...